1. Judy led by example. Judy was a living legend. By the time I started at the company she had already been there for 30 years, served on the board of directors, and founded their women in leadership group. She had a reputation for being tough, difficult even. And the first time we met in the bathroom she told me I looked like I was in between classes at college. I was silly enough to take it as a compliment at the time.
It wasn't.
But when we started working together it was magic. Judy knew how to bring out the best in people because she led by example. I learned more from watching her sell one client than I had in my five previous years with the company.
2. Judy taught me that appearance counts. And not just physical appearance, but the way you market yourself to the world. Every e-mail, every menial task, every tedious meeting was an opportunity to demonstrate my value and kick some corporate ass.
3. Judy showed me the importance of being passionate. Judy never did anything half ass. If she was professionally or personally invested in something she was ALL over it. Her enthusiasm was contagious and that's probably why she made such an amazing leader. Judy taught me that when you are passionate you invoke passion in others.
4. Judy helped me find my voice. I didn't even know what voice was back then, but when I sent her my first draft of a newsletter for our team she sent it back and said, "Boring! Where is your signature Lisa style?" Judy had picked up on my voice from more casual communications and she taught me how to channel it and use it in everything that I write. Priceless.
5. Judy was the life of the party. I'll never forget being at some horrible corporate function and feeling someone sneak up behind me and whisper in my ear, "Your breasts look fantastic!" It was Judy, of course. One of her most memorable antics was taking clients to a Madonna concert wearing a hot pink satin bra on top of her conservative button down. Judy was always the life of the party and as a result people gravitated to her.
I always thought Judy was grooming me for a career in corporate America. I naturally assumed that she wanted me to follow in her distinguished footsteps. But looking back at everything I learned from her over the years, I think she was secretly teaching me how to be a writer.
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She sounded like a wonderful woman. So sorry for your loss.
How wonderful to have her in your life--and how wonderful that you appreciated her. So many people would have taken the first comment (about you looking like being between classes) and written her off as a b*tch.
So sorry you lost her. But, whoa, weren't you lucky to have had her in your life!!
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I'm sorry for your loss.
It sounds like you take a lot from what she taught you and in turn that's how we remember people we love day after day when they're gone.
*Hugs*
Those kind of people who touch you, teach you and change you for the better are amazing. What a great tribute to her.
Judy sounds like one amazing person! Sorry for your loss.
This is such a special tribute.
Sorry for your loss.
What a lovely post. I am very sorry the loss of this wonderful person.
Wow she sounds totally awesome and kick ass, I love the things she taught you and showed you. But Im sorry to hear she passed.
I am terribly sorry for your loss. It seems like she's left you with quite the legacy though, and that's got to count for something...many hugs :)
So sorry for your loss. It sounds as though she was an amazing woman.
This almost made me cry.
Great leaders and great people prepare you to be the best YOU... wherever your dreams take you. It sounds like that is exactly what she did.
What a wonderful tribute to her!
This is an incredible tribute, Lisa.
What an amazing woman...
She sounds like an amazing woman. I wish she was still around to teach #3 to more people. Passion creates a zest for life that makes each day worth living.
What an exceptional woman and friend! You have honored her well today. Wonderful tribute.
I especially like the idea that your own passion ignites it in others. And helping you find your 'voice." That's amazing. She had some priceless advice.
So sorry for your loss and grief. I'm sure she is smiling at this post and is very proud of you!
That is a wonderful tribute. I'm so sorry to hear about her passing. But glad to hear all you learned from her. =)
She sounds like an incredible mentor and leader.
Ahh, Lisa, so sorry to hear about her passing. What an incredible and unique woman.
Very touching and a wonderful way to honor her memory!
Wow, she sounds amazing. And don't take this the wrong way, because you know I love you to bits and pieces, but maybe she was teaching you how to be a grown up. How to be yourself. And how to work hard for something.
And yeah, that's what a writer is (maybe not being grown up - ha!), but it's a recipe for success in life. Like no matter what you chose to do, you'd be able to do it. You know?
*hugs*
Yeah, I second what Elana said so eloquently. What a moving tribute to her this is! *hugs" across the internet!!
I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend. It sounds like she was an amazing woman.
That's just lovely. No funny today, just appreciation. Well said, good lady.
What an amazing mentor she sounds like. I love kick ass women like that! You were lucky to have someone like that in your life. This post is a great tribute to your memory of her.
What a great tribute to your mentor. It sounds like she was the kind of woman to touch everyone's lives in some way. You never forget people like that.
Sorry for your loss.
She sounds like a very special lady indeed! I bet she read that and did a great big arm pump knowing that she made a difference in your life.
Such a beautiful tribute. I'm sorry for your loss.
I love this...what a beautiful memorial. I think we could all use a Judy in our lives. Thank you for sharing her with us.
She sounds like a wonderful woman. I can see why you'll miss her. Now you must continue her example for others - which I know you already do.
that sux - so sorry! :( hugs!
She sounds like a wonderful woman, and this is a fantastic tribute for her. Sorry for your loss.
The two stories under #5 make me think that I would have LOVED Judy :). I'm so glad you had someone like that to not only look up to and learn from, but befriend.
Thank you for sharing your memories of her with us!
That was the most honest and beautiful tribute I think I have read.
I miss her and I never knew her.
So sorry for your loss, but what a great tribute to her!
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. She sounds like she was a wonderful person!
You where all blessed to have each others. Thoughts & prayers with you guys. *big hugs*
Beautiful eulogy. She sounds lie an amazing woman, and I'm glad she was a part of your life.
Peace to her spirit.
It's so hard when someone meaningful in your life passes away. It sounds like you learned the lessons she was meant to teach you.
Good wishes coming your way!
Lovely, lovely tribute. Judy sounds wonderful - she will be missed. You have my thoughts and my sympathies. Take care.
Lovely (albeit sad) post. We all could use a Judy in our lives.
So sorry for your loss. It is so important that you remember the impack she had on your life, so you can do the same thing for someone else in the future.
That was a beautiful tribute to her. She sounded like a remarkable woman.
I'm very sorry for your loss, but glad you learned so much from her. She will live on through the people she touched...
We all need a woman in our life to show us the ropes, hold us accountable and teach us a thing or two. Judy sounds like she was a peach. I'm sorry for your loss. May she live on in your memories.
Your portrait of Judy is wonderful. I think her attention to detail and showing you how to make a good impression to the world really stands out. It reminded me of a story Ricky Nelson's daughter told about her grandmother, Harriet. She said her best advice was never to go to bed with makeup on. At first I thought that sounded shallow until I considered what it meant--that you care enough about yourself to never be indifferent. It's a valuable lesson.
wow - what an amazing eulogy. I wish I had known Judy too now.
Judy sounds like a person I would have liked to know.
she sounds awesome. and i think you've shared with us a lot of what she taught you.
my thoughts and prayers are with you, sweetie :)
She sounds like a great lady, I'm sorry she's gone.
What a wonderful tribute. I'm sorry for your loss. She sounds like an amazing woman.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing all you did with us - I enjoyed reading every word about her - even though I never met her.
I'm so sorry. She sounded like a great friend.
You have my condolences. I'm glad you have such happy memories of your time with Judy.
Sorry for your loss. There was a woman I knew, Ginidee. She was such an amazing writer and critique partner and such a rich person in general. I wish I'd had the opportunity to meet her in person, and tell her how much her mentorship meant to me before she passed on.
I'm glad you posted, because it was a nice reminder of the amazing woman who I knew so briefly.
Judy lives on with this post. I love her wisdom and joie! Thank you for sharing her!
She sounds like a wonderful woman. I'm so sorry for your loss. Sounds like she made a huge impression on you ... what an amazing friend and mentor to have.
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